In reaching the development of ICT,some may miss in the importance of teaching the student how to manage theirself.As example,how to manage their stress,anger and many other feeling.This is actually very important as we can see that suicide case often happen nowadays.This resulted from the development ICT as ICT contribute to the furthe development of social complexity.Thus brings more stress in our life.There once an incident during a speech at one of the education institute i study at.At the time the speaker as for any question from the audience,a girl stood up.With a trembling voice and tears rolling down her cheeks,he ask"Why do parents always pressure us to study and achieve good grades?I am so stressed up and could not bear it anymore!Study,study,study but there is nothing teach us to how to manage our emotion and life"the girl said(it was something like that.i could not remember the exact words).Eventhough there are a lot of people boo..and make fun of her(especially boys),i realise what she was feeling and there are other that i believe,share the same feeling.The speeker then gave some explanation and calm her down.The speaker also did admit that there are no specific subject on Malaysia current education syllabus that teach what that girl wanted to learn.Eventhough we can see that there are counselling service provided in some stage of education institution,we can really see that it does not fully used by student especially those in the primary and secondary school.Teenager nowadays more prefer to talk to their friends as they trusted and spend more time with their friends.However,as friends are usually not mature and not equipped with the right knowledge,they often mislead people who seek advice from them.The evidence is right in front of our eyes.Teenagers nowadays have seen to only seek fun and joy without thinking whether it is good or bad for their future.All of because peer pressure(friends influence).In many part of my life,often when younger friends of mine,told me that there is no one that they could talk to,to tell their problem as there are to busy study for their education.As a result,they felt the stress building up in them and made them sad and moody eventhough they seem to be happy outside when interact with their friends.All of this shows how important for students and people generally to learn to manage their emotion and stress.It is a need that should we consider for our education syllabus.I myself equip myself with this kind of knowledge as a like reading books about psychology,about how to know ourself better,about how our minds work and also about communication.Often that i can finish those kind of books in short period eventhough it is ranged from hundreds to one thousand pages a spark contrast with my attitude towards books linked to my studies in universities.almost forget.things that i said in this paragraph not included on my eut122 assignment.It fully based on mylife experience.